People always say "everything happens for a reason" or "everything will be alright." I don't believe that this is true. Sometimes I think we have to make everything alright. You don't get into every situation because of fate or destiny. Sometime, things just HAPPEN. Life is learning to accept it and move past it. Nothing is going to just magically make a situation okay; it is up to us to accept what we cannot change and move on or change what we cannot accept. That is life.